Of all times for a marriage relationship to be in despair, the Christmas season may be the worst. A season where love is expected to abound, debts forgiven, peace on Earth and goodwill toward men proclaimed, it never seems quite so simple in marriage.

Many are decorating their tree alone this year. Some just wonder “what’s the point” and do nothing festive. Without our spouse, with whom we are accustomed to spending this time of year, it can often seem trivial and even heartbreaking to this year decorate or be joyful alone.

But before abandoning hope this year, may I suggest a pause, just a brief one, and remember a time in the lives of the Jews where they no longer ruled themselves but were ruled by the Romans. While not an altogether unpleasant experience it also wasn’t what was envisioned for the Jews. As they awaited the arrival of the Messiah, expecting a King and awaiting rescue and salvation, it came in a wholly different way.

In times of despair through dealings with the likes of Harod, the Jews missed the miracle taking place in a stable in Bethlehem. Waiting for a King, they received God in the form of a baby. Expecting triumph they received teachings, lessons about who God really is and what He really expects. Wanting a leader they received a servant. But most of all, they (we) received a sacrifice that would that would not pardon our sins, but justify us before a living and loving God.

As we wait for our miracles this Christmas, praying for God to show us His path for us and waiting on Him to lead us there, don’t forget to look in unexpected places, like in a manger. Or, like washing the feet of or dining with sinners.

You may even be the miracle for someone else this year, even though you….no, especially though you may be in shambles and hurting so badly; it’s His strength when we’re weak that makes it a miracle.

God has never had a problem making the impossible possible. Occasionally it’s us that just stands in the way.

Pray for marriages and families this Christmas…there is a lot of hurt out there all over. Everyone will benefit from all of our dedication to pray.

Merry Christmas,

Seth

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